Sunday, May 19, 2013

WHICH BIRTH CONTROL IS RIGHT FOR YOU?


Our new birth control chart compares all your contraception choices side by side so you can find your perfect match. From rings to rods, you can do all your research in one place. We've got cost comparisons, side effects, active ingredients, and much more. Plus, enter your email address (click above or below) and get an expanded version delivered to your inbox.
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PILL Ortho Tri-Cyclen,
Yasmin, Lo-Ovral, Loestrin
$10–$50
month
Oral pills,
taken daily
98% Temporary
birth control
EMERGENCY
PILL
Plan B,
Next Choice
$30–$60 Oral pill, taken
within 72 hours
after failed
contraception
87% Backup to failed
contraception
IUD Mirena,
ParaGard
$200–$600
(device and insertion)
T-shaped device inserted into
uterus by
professional,
lasts 5–10 years
99% Women who
wish to delay
pregnancy 5
or more years
RING NuvaRing Up to $50/month New plastic ring
inserted into
vagina monthly,
remains in place for 3 weeks,
then removed for 1 week (your period)
98% Women who
dislike daily pills
SHOT Depo-Provera $35–$75,
plus exam fees
Injection
administered by
professional into
upper arm or
butt, lasts up to
4 months
99% Women who
cannot take
estrogen or are
breast-feeding
PATCH Ortho Evra $15–$50/month Patch applied to
skin weekly, 3
weeks of
patches per
month, then 1
week without
(your period)
98% Women who
prefer topical
medications,
dislike daily pills
IMPLANT Implanon $400–$800
(device and insertion)
Matchstick-size
rod implanted
under inner arm
skin, lasts up to
3 years
99% Women who
cannot take
estrogen or are
breast-feeding
SPONGE Today Sponge $9–$15 for 3 Foam disk
inserted up to
24 hours before
sex, can be left
in up to 30
hours total, no prescription
needed
84–91% for
those who have
not previously
given birth,
68–80% for
those who have
Women who
dislike daily
pills, can't take
hormones
DIAPHRAGM Ortho All-Flex,
Milex Wide Seal
$15–$50 plus
office visit cost
(fitting required
by professional),
$7–$18 for
spermicide
Reusable latex
or silicone disk
inserted into
vagina with
spermicide
before sex, lasts
up to 2 years
92–96% Women who
dislike daily
pills, can't take
hormones
CONDOM Durex, Trojan,
Lifestyles
$2–$6 for 3 Latex or
lambskin
sheath applied
to male partner before sex, one
time use only
98% Women who
have multiple
partners, can't
take hormones

Girl On Top

When it comes to sex positions, we'll take them all. But our go-to is the clitoris-pleasing cowgirl. When you're on top, facing him, you control the angle and depth of penetration, and you're free to grind your hips whichever way works best at any given moment. Bonus: Because you're more likely to move back and forth than up and down (which stimulates his penis more intensely), your partner will last longer. Here's how to rock this all-time best position.

1. He lies on his back, enjoying the view of your gorgeous bod and engaging in romantic eye contact.

2. Rock or slide your hips back and forth to drum up some delicious clitoral friction.

3. Tilt your pelvis forward to maximize contact between your clitoris and his abdomen.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

10 Ways to Build Your Sexual Confidence

the right lingerieFind the Right Lingerie … for You

Who cares what Gisele Bundchen is wearing? The key to sexy lingerie is finding something that you feel sexy in. So while a thong might work for one woman, perhaps you feel cuter in a pair of boy shorts (especially if you’re a little insecure about your rear view). A leopard print push-up bra might work for Kim Kardashian, but if you’re a little self-conscious, a more subtle lacy number can be just as

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex


sexual healthFreud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know:

1. We Respond to Praise
It’s believed that men are so consumed by our libido that we have no self-consciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom (give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look), and after (give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look naked). Along those lines, men worry about the size of their guts (and other measurable organs), their hair (or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

How to Hire the Right Babysitter for Your Family

How to Hire the Right Babysitter for Your Family
Choosing a babysitter is not easy. If you are one of the lucky ones, you might have family or a close network of friends close by to help care for your children when you need to have some time away. But even if you do have a helpful community, there will still be times in your parenting life when you need to hire a sitter.
First, consider the time of day or night that you need your sitter and

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Personal Lubes for Hotter Sex

Call it the Goldilocks rule of great sex: When it comes to lubrication, too much or too little can cause your sack session to flop. But when there's just the right amount, it boosts below-the-belt sensations. "Lubrication is your body's way of telling you that you're turned on," says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale University School of Medicine. "You can't have comfortable or successful sex without it."

Every woman lubricates differently—there's no "normal" amount of wetness—and most women should be able to tell when they're good

Shop Your Shape: The Best Lingerie


Straight Silhouette
 
 
A lacy bandeau and hip-slung briefs create womanly curves. 









Wednesday, April 10, 2013

4 Easy Hair Cheats for When You're in a Rush

Are you always in a rush? I am, especially when it comes to my hair and makeup. Luckily, I've come up with four easy hair cheats to get me out the door in a flash without looking like a disheveled mess.
4 Easy Hair Cheats for When You're in a Rush1. Bobby Pin TwistsGrowing out your bangs? Limp, lifeless hair hanging in your face? Friends, let me introduce you to bobby pin twists. If your hair looks like a stringy, unfinished mess, just run a boar bristle brush through it to detangle first. Once smooth, grab a 1- to 1.5-inch lock of hair at the temple, twist it between your fingers, and then secure it with a bobby pin or two behind your ear or the crown of your head. You can

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

How to Pluck and Shape Your Eyebrows

How to Pluck and Shape Your EyebrowsIn junior high school, I all but plucked my eyebrows into thin barely there lines. I'd like to think it was all the rage in 1993, but the truth is, not a single one of us knew what we were doing.
Sadly, by the time I recognized the severity of my barely there brows, the damage had been done. Try as I have over the years, I was never able to grow them back. For the last 10 years, I’ve worn thick, blunt bangs that I trim to eyebrow length every two weeks, but occasionally (especially in the summer) wear my

How to Reinvent Fashion Classics


Classic items are timeless and ageless — think simple black blazers, sheath dresses, white button-down shirts, bootcut jeans, tailored trousers, riding boots, pencil skirts, denim jackets, pointy toed pumps, Audrey Hepburn inspired dresses and trench coats.


Here’s the secret: A classic item can be the key element to a totally trendy ensemble. As with most things fashion and style, it’s not nearly as much about the item itself as it is about how you style it. Combine it with unexpected pieces, or match it with interesting accessories and footwear. You can even reinvent a classic item by dramatically changing your own hairstyle or choice of eyewear. After all, your hair and specs are your most important accessories!
Let’s take a few classics out of their comfort zones:

Sheath DressTone down the formal integrity by adding an arty layering piece or men’s necktie. Take a plain

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Clothes Men Think Are Sexy


Unless it's super-short and crazy-tight, it's hard to know what kind of looks men love. So we decided to poll a few to find out a thing or two about what they really want to see you in this summer. The results just might surprise you. 


 Rompers
"I like when girls don't try too hard to look good; to me, rompers look simple but are still cute." — Anthony C.

Sweats
"Any girl can show a lot of skin or wear tight clothes. I love when she can make sweats sexy." — Dave M.

Mini Skirts
"Seeing some leg is super-sexy—plus tight mini skirts accentuate a girl's butt, which is always a good thing." — Nathan H.

Skinny Jeans
"On nights out, I generally prefer to see a woman in tight jeans, since they show off her curves and accentuate her assets." — Max F.

How to Moisturize Your Body

How to Moisturize Your Body

Skin is the body’s largest organ: It is a living, breathing thing that actually needs TLC. And what it wants most — besides protection in the form of sunscreen — is a long drink of moisture.

Dry skin is a difficult, annoying and sometimes unsightly problem to have. With a little know-how and some preventative care, though, you can make sure your skin is getting all the protection and love it needs to be at its best.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

12 Kinds Of Sex Every Woman Needs To Have Before She Settles Down

Kinds Of Sex Every Woman Needs To Have Before She Settles DownWe're sick of all these so-called relationship experts telling ladies the way to snag a man is to keep it in your pants, er, skirt. Listen, you prisses, not only are we way too old to be  virgins, but we sure as hell are glad we're not! Holding out for some kind of commitment only makes a gal feel like her vag is her primary value, not herself. Lame! And what about our desires? Doesn't that matter? Frankly, you have to test-drive some cars before you know which one you wanna buy, if you know what we mean. No matter what kind of sex you're into, there are certain experiences we think every woman needs to have before she settles down. Click through to see what sexy stuff we suggest you get around to before you decide to buy.

How To Please A Man In Bed: 5 Strangely Powerful Tips!


How To Please A Man In Bed: 5 Strangely Powerful Tips! [EXPERT]

I'm Going To Show You 5 Powerful Tips On How To Please Your Man In Bed. Your Man Is Going To Love It

  • The Washing Machine Position - In this sex position, you will be standing and leaning right over a washing machine or a table or even over the hood of a car. Your man will be standing too and will enter you from behind.
  • The Lap Dance Position - In this position, your man will be sitting down on a chair or sofa. You then need to back up onto him with your butt so that he can enter you. The reason that it's called the lap dance position is because you can smoothly transition to sex from giving your man a lap dance

The 10 New Classic Accessories Every Woman Must Own

You don't need us to tell you that accessories can take an outfit from boring and basic to a look that will get you spotted on a Tastemaker post in Sense of Style. Once you have these 10 classic accessories in your closet, your outfit will go from drab to fab in seconds.


1. Sunglasses

Forget a smile, you're never fully dressed without a killer pair of shades. Bigger is usually better, but not mandatory if they overwhelm your face shape. Blondes and redheads look hot in tortoise shell while brunettes look better in black.

2. Skinny Belts

Whether you want to accentuate your waist in a sheath dress, belt a cardigan, or accent a favorite pair of pants, a skinny belt is the answer. You can't go wrong with a black patent belt and neon brights are hot this spring.

The 5 Bras Every Woman Should Own

How to find the right bra

The wrong bra can add pounds, make you look lumpy, and leave you sore and itchy at the end of the day.

The right bra, on the other hand, can make you can look like a million bucks no matter what you're wearing – a T-shirt, button down shirt, or the infamous little black dress.

Lingerie and department stores can be bewildering places, overflowing with hundreds of styles and colors and teeming with salespeople hoping to upsell you into more bras than you need or fancier brands than you can afford.